Thanks, cold_type, I hadn't heard of Jennifer. That finder is also excellent, many therapists write an introductory paragraph and it kind of gives you a sense of their perspective and style, which is useful.

For you and everyone else who is replying with help: I'd like you to know that I feel a lot better about all this than I did this morning - I went from "crap, I have no idea who to go to" to having quite a few leads to try. It feels pretty good. Thanks for chiming in - and feel free to keep 'em coming.