ext_27189 ([identity profile] squonk.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] davis_square2010-01-09 12:21 pm
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Blindie fails and wins in Davis.

- Two barking, snarling bulldogs pinning me and my guide dog to the wall on Elm and Day Streets yesterday afternoon. The dogs were on-leash, but it took both the owner and another gentleman to physically pull the dogs away. My guide dog was okay. I was less okay, emotionally (but fine physically). It takes a lot to get me to scream.

+ The owner making a point of coming into Starbucks, identifying himself, and apologizing profusely. It was clear that he felt absolutely terrible, and I give him significant credit for actively taking responsibility, which a lot of other people would not have done.

- My being too rattled to say this to him at the time: Please do not walk your aggressive dogs in a public space, especially in the middle of the afternoon, when they're clearly not under your control and a danger to others. They need to be muzzled or they need to stay home. (I'm not trying to be passive-aggressive by posting this here; again, I was just too unnerved at the time to say or do anything useful.) Had my guide dog been injured, all the apologies of the world could not have mitigated the damage to my life.

+ The witness who ended up in front of me in the line at Starbucks expressing her compassion, then proceeding to pay for my drink. Wow. I think her name was Christina, and she made things much more bearable.

- Feeling calmer and proceeding toward home, only to be treated hostilely by another denizen because I did not want to cross Chester Street exactly when she told me to. When I said I was trying to listen to the traffic first, she snapped, "Fine--all you're hearing is a parked car running right now, so you do what you want!" Dear Self-Appointed Crossing Guard: a. I've been crossing streets all by myself for my entire adult life, and since I am an adult, you don't get to make my mobility decisions for me; b. You forgot to ask me if I needed or wanted assistance (a request may well be appreciated; an assumption/insistence never is); c. Your shouting, "It's safe! Go! I said it's safe! CROSS! IT'S SAFE! I'M STANDING IN THE MIDDLE OF THE STREET!" oddly does not inspire a lot of confidence; d. Feel free to go back and stand in the middle of the street for a while, IYKWIM.

- Not wanting to leave my house today.

+ Remembering that Davis Square-ians are actually on the whole some of the most educated, respectful, and generous people I've met anywhere, and that I love living here. Maybe I will leave the house after all.

Self-appointed crossing guard

[identity profile] treacle-well.livejournal.com 2010-01-09 05:35 pm (UTC)(link)
What a clueless jerk
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I'm all for putting a leash

[identity profile] nvidia99999.livejournal.com 2010-01-09 10:34 pm (UTC)(link)
and a muzzle on kids, for that matter :)

What woman?

[identity profile] nvidia99999.livejournal.com 2010-01-09 10:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Am I missing a key character in the story?

Re: What woman?

[identity profile] treacle-well.livejournal.com 2010-01-09 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
probably the self-appointed crossing guard

Re: What woman?

[identity profile] nvidia99999.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, your are right. For some reason, I had imagined an obnoxious guy reading the last part, and had missed the female references...
larksdream: (been lovely)

[personal profile] larksdream 2010-01-09 06:08 pm (UTC)(link)
That must have been so scary! I'm glad to hear the guy at least apologized. But seriously, taking two powerful dogs out at the same time in a very high-traffic public area may not be the best idea ever. (I do know some big dogs that are extremely placid and gentle, but on the other hand sometimes the dog's owner is really wearing rose-colored glasses.)

Your shouting, "It's safe! Go! I said it's safe! CROSS! IT'S SAFE! I'M STANDING IN THE MIDDLE OF THE STREET!" oddly does not inspire a lot of confidence

*snort* For some reason! Yeesh.

[identity profile] lizzielizzie.livejournal.com 2010-01-09 06:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Ugh, how nerve wracking! Glad you are physically OK.

Just out of curiosity, what are working guide dogs trained to do when other dogs come after them?

Terrible.

[identity profile] nvidia99999.livejournal.com 2010-01-09 07:21 pm (UTC)(link)
All dogs that size should be required to be muzzled anyway, when being taken around public places. Many times, tiny people are seen holding one or more huge dogs on a leash. Obviously, these people would not be able to control their dogs, so the leash is only symbolic.
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Re: Terrible.

[identity profile] nvidia99999.livejournal.com 2010-01-09 10:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Really? Are you suggesting we should put a leash on the owners? You don't think that a good kick in the nose would take care of a small dog out of control? I know it does, for having tried it a few times. Still waiting for the owner to complain about that. I don't give a damn how "well trained" a large animal is. Nobody knows what that means, anyway, and nobody can predict reactions by animals in crowded urban environments. I want large animals muzzled, so that, when they go nuts they cannot kill or severely injure a person. I can deal with the small ones.

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Re: Terrible.

[identity profile] prunesnprisms.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
I would suggest you not feed our troll.
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Re: Terrible.

[identity profile] prunesnprisms.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
Local under-the-bridge type. =)

Re: Terrible.

[identity profile] srakkt.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
it's never been clear to me what wifi provider set that access point up under McGrath.

Re: Terrible.

[identity profile] prunesnprisms.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
I always assumed it was the RR bridge in Ball, but I could be wrong.

Re: Terrible.

[identity profile] nvidia99999.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Instead, I hear about people getting killed by small dogs ALL the time!
I demand mandatory muzzling of large dogs in public places. It's coming, only a matter of time.

[identity profile] m00n.livejournal.com 2010-01-09 08:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't understand. Why would you hesitate before trusting a *total stranger* with your life and limb??? ;-)

[identity profile] prunesnprisms.livejournal.com 2010-01-09 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you had a scary experience and glad that you and dog are okay.

[identity profile] cold-type.livejournal.com 2010-01-09 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm also amazed at how many people let their dogs run off leash on the bike path.

[identity profile] pierceheart.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 03:16 am (UTC)(link)
They don't care that they endanger others and their pets.

[identity profile] icecreamempress.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
I am so glad that things worked out OK, but that must have been a terrifying event for you and your dog. Best thoughts to you.

[identity profile] oneagain.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 05:44 am (UTC)(link)
Wild dogs, wild people--you had a lot of wildness to deal with! Your post to vent about it is absolutely and appropriate vent. I am angry on your behalf at the stupid and sorry that you had to go through that.

[identity profile] brewso.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 06:51 pm (UTC)(link)
OK, I *really* hope this doesn't get taken the wrong way or trounced all over, because it is truly a serious question:

How are you posting on livejournal if you are blind?

Ugh, I feel ignorant. I hope this question doesn't offend you. I'm just curious. And I'm very sorry to hear about the incidents you encountered and glad to hear you and your dog are OK.

[identity profile] wavilyem.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 08:23 pm (UTC)(link)
You'd be surprised how many different types of software and peripherals are available to assist people with disabilities use computers these days! Although I can't speak for the OP, many people who are blind or visually impaired use screen reading software to listen to emails, web pages, etc. and are able to touch type on a standard keyboard after some practice.

[identity profile] yourenotwithme.livejournal.com 2010-01-11 06:28 am (UTC)(link)
There are also refreshable braille writers that can display text in braille for the blind to read.

The company I used to work for, National Braille Press, is developing some new technology like this now... www.nbp.org has some information. It is really interesting and a wonderful step for the blind so that information can be accessed by all.

To the OP, I am glad that you are ok. That must have been a terrifying situation and I am disheartened by the fact that there are still so many ignorant people out there. It is good to read though that this experience has not made you want to stay inside forever. There is too much life to live!

[identity profile] doglover1127.livejournal.com 2010-10-29 01:37 pm (UTC)(link)
A Bark Collar (http://www.radiofence.com/categories/Bark-Collars/) is a safe, effective and humane way to train your dog not to bark too much. Clinical studies conducted by the College of Veterinary medicine of Cornell University have proven that Spray Bark Collars (http://www.radiofence.com/categories/Bark-Collars/) are TWICE as effective as shock collars! Sonic dog barking collars are virtually ineffective compared to spray.