You just choose not to move and choose to complain
I like where I live, and I wasn't complaining, sorry you heard that. I was describing the problem I had, some of the sources of it, and what I did to deal with it. Where was the complaining in that? I was making suggestions that might prove useful to the op's daughter.
Guilded life? No, I don't believe I said that. I said you are unusually empowered for a woman--single women who own their own single family house, particularly in this area, are still the minority. I don't think it is an advantage to be a woman, either; I said you were unusually empowered *especially* for a woman, since I think being a woman is generally an economic *dis*advantage. I am now wondering how closely you read what I wrote.
thus I had to Deal even if I couldn't.
If you think that is something that everyone can do in every situation, you are sadly mistaken. I'm sorry it was painful for you, and I am sorry you were ignored. I don't like ignoring people when they ask for help, which is why I made the suggestions that you criticized in the first place.
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Date: 2009-12-11 10:11 pm (UTC)I like where I live, and I wasn't complaining, sorry you heard that. I was describing the problem I had, some of the sources of it, and what I did to deal with it. Where was the complaining in that? I was making suggestions that might prove useful to the op's daughter.
Guilded life? No, I don't believe I said that. I said you are unusually empowered for a woman--single women who own their own single family house, particularly in this area, are still the minority. I don't think it is an advantage to be a woman, either; I said you were unusually empowered *especially* for a woman, since I think being a woman is generally an economic *dis*advantage. I am now wondering how closely you read what I wrote.
thus I had to Deal even if I couldn't.
If you think that is something that everyone can do in every situation, you are sadly mistaken. I'm sorry it was painful for you, and I am sorry you were ignored. I don't like ignoring people when they ask for help, which is why I made the suggestions that you criticized in the first place.