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Dad: "You look much more chill this year. Fewer rebellious menu elements?"
Me: "AHAHAHAHAHA."
Mom: "I still remember the year you did the Peking duck. That was stressful."
Me: "We learned our lesson. Outsource cooking the bird.*"

* unless it's roasting a chicken, something either of us could do in our sleep

Happy Asian American Thanksgiving, year ... uh, whatever it is since we've been doing this formally, composing our Thanksgiving banquet menus to be primarily if not entirely recipes by Asian American cooks and chefs. Year 8? But we've been perfectly happy to give up on the turkey and just eat something yummy and celebratory, along with a bounty of sides.

- Main: Knowing both that Leonard and Sara were doing their own experimental turkey roast and planning on sharing if it worked out, and that there were going to be at least , we went with pork belly again. This time, we did Kristina Cho's Chop Shop Pork Belly, from her Chinese Enough cookbook. Lovely crispy skin on top, succulent meaty bottom, served over jade pearl rice (which was pretty and interesting and just a little sweet to balance; I'd be curious about making a horchata out of it!), and it paired incredibly well with ...

- Cranberry Sauce: Kay Chun's Cranberry-Asian Pear Chutney, always and forever. (Forgot to pick up mandarins to make another version I've been meaning to try, but I'll probably do that later this week.) This year's amusing highlight, though, was that the last time I bought raisins, they were "giant" ones from the bulk bin at Berkeley Bowl. Leonard: "Um, Lynne, are those grapes in your cranberry sauce?" Me: "No, they're raisins, I swear!"

- Stuffing: Mandy Lee's Red Hot Oyster Kimchi Dressing has been on my bucket list bakes forever, and now I'm mad at myself for waiting so long. "Oh, but I have to get oysters, and I really want to do it with the gochujang bread, and what if some people think it's too spicy?" Everybody loved it. We will be repeating this before next Thanksgiving, maybe as soon as Christmas. Maybe even with oyster kimchi to make it extra oyster-y. If you haven't had oyster dressing/stuffing, with or without kimchi, this recipe has completely convinced me of its deliciousness. Even the Chron had an oyster stuffing recipe this year. Time to bring it back!

- Orange Veg: After several years in a row of squash soups, it was time to shake things up; we called on our old fave, kaddo bourani. Sweet pumpkin echoing the sweet potato casseroles of our younger days, tempered with a meat sauce full of warming spices and a garlic-mint-yogurt topper.

- Potatoes: Likewise, with the potatoes, I wanted "not cheesy scallion, not maple miso, make something up, we're both Asian American, it'll still count for Asian American Thanksgiving!" [personal profile] hyounpark took that decision off my plate, thank you dear, and made mashed potatoes with toasted ginger, cinnamon, nutmeg, soy sauce, and sesame oil. It tasted good, but note to our future selves: when you run out of regular soy sauce, substituting dark soy sauce is going to result in mashed potatoes the color of gravy, just be warned. :)

- Green Veg, Cooked: Made Andrea Nguyen's Sesame Salt Greens again (from her cookbook Ever Green Vietnamese). This time, with collard greens; probably should've cooked them a little longer, but that's okay.

- Green Veg, Raw: Leonard and Sara brought a salad with pomegranates and persimmons from their tree and it was exactly the right balance to all the other heavy stuff on the table.

- Dessert: the triumphant return of Alana Kysar's Liliko'i Chiffon Pie (from her cookbook Aloha Kitchen) to the table. We get our arm workout in every year making the passionfruit curd, but the results are well worth it. Even when yours truly realizes at 3:30 pm Thanksgiving Eve that actually, we *are* out of gelatin powder, and I'm going to have to go Brave The Grocery Store. Didn't find gelatin powder, but did find gelatin sheets, and learned a new thing, so it worked out!

*

Things that did not make it to the table this year, but hopefully will next year:

- Cornbread. I really did want to solve the custard cornbread problem. I was trying to de-dairify the custard-filled cornbread that used to be on our Thanksgiving table every year until our collective lactose intolerance got to be too much for even Lactaid to help with. But having talked to [personal profile] ladyjax's professional chef spouse, there may not be an alternative milk out there that's going to behave the same way heavy cream does from a chemistry perspective, alas.

I made two batches and both were big enough fails we weren't going to inflict the results on anyone. One used coconut cream, the other used A2 cow milk cream. In both cases, the cream that was supposed to sink below the top layer chocoflan/impossible cake style? Pooled in the center of the pan like creamy lava, with a ring of perfectly normal cornbread around the outside. It tasted fine, but the texture was obviously wrong.

I'm going to go back to basics and try making the original recipe with bog-standard commercial heavy cream to make sure even the original still works, sigh. Maybe in a few weeks. When I can stand to look at cornbread again.

The cornbread part itself came out just fine, though! I've wanted to make a cornbread with the same flavors as Betty Liu's lemongrass corn soup; I added lemongrass and shallots and scallions and used coconut milk as a base for our cornbread, and that part was great.

- Deviled eggs. I forgot I was going to use up most of the eggs on the chiffon pie, so didn't follow through. But I want to put chicharones on my deviled eggs the next time I make them! Just trying to decide what else should go into the filling or as a topping.

- Cheesecake. Following up on my successes with burnt Basque cheesecakes, I wanted to try to make one with the truffle cream cheese from one of our local bagel bakeries. I will in fact do that, and probably bring it to coffee ride this week! But the pie was enough for everybody.

*

Ten days out from Break Bread, trying to cram the Bach Magnificat into my brain, somehow having never performed any part of it before in four decades of choral singing. This is a CRAPTON of trills, peeps. At least I already have one of the Whitney Houston songs we're singing down flat (I can absolutely get up on stage right now and sing I Wanna Dance With Somebody from memory, and could have done so any time from 1987 on), and the same with the Hallelujah Chorus. Which leaves three other newer songs to learn quickly. Tis the season!

(We survived Verdi, but that's another post entirely!)
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Even for a conspiracy thriller, Defence of the Realm (1985) is an uncomfortable film. Its newsroom seems wrapped in a clingfilm of nicotine, its night scenes suffused with the surreal ultramarine that blurs dusk into dawn, its streets and offices as fox-fired with fluorescence as if faintly decaying throughout. An airbase glows as suddenly out of a darkness of fenland as science fiction. Precisely because no one can be seen in it, a window becomes a threat. It is not a sound or a secure world to inhabit and yet because it is ours, its characters walk on our own plain air of pretense, behaving as if its tips and headlines can be relied on until all at once the missed footing of a microcassette or a photocopy becomes an abyss and the most accustomed institutions nothing to hang on to after all. It came out of a decade whose mistrust of its government was proliferating through public discourse and art and felt neither safely transatlantic nor old-fashioned when I first learned of the film, twenty years ago when top-down lies about weapons of mass destruction were particularly au courant. Forty years after its release, its anxieties over the exercise of unaccountable power within a superficially democratic state haven't aged into a fantasy yet.

As a conspiracy thriller, it is not an especially twisty one, which works for rather than against its escalation from tabloid expediency to an open referendum on the British security state; it has one real feint in the juicy hit of its Profumo-style affair after which it can let itself concentrate on the unnerving, bleak, inevitable revelation of a world whose dangers spring not from the rattled skeletons of the Cold War but the actorly handshakes of the Special Relationship. We hear a bulletin on the bombing of the American embassy in Ankara before we see the titles that set the isolated scene of a car speeding down a night-misted road somewhere in the sedge flats of "Eastern England." Further overlays of current events will come to sound more like the Lincolnshire Poacher than Channel 4, a wallpaper of committee hearings and police reports pinging their transmissions among the paranoid legwork of blow-ups and coil taps. "Clapping eyes on it is one thing. Getting a copy out is another. " The flame of truth in this film is more like one of those old incandescent bulbs that take a second or two to sputter on, dust-burnt and bug-flecked. For a while it seems not just carried but incarnated by Vernon Bayliss, one of the rumpled nonpareils of 1980's Denholm Elliott—nothing but the rigs of the Thatcherite time explains what his old leftie is doing as the veteran hack of a right-wing rag like the Daily Dispatch, but it's a riveting showcase for his voice that crackles with cynicism while the rest of his face looks helplessly hurt, his disorganized air of not even having gotten to the bed he just fell out of, a couple of heel-taps from a permanently half-cut Cassandra of the Street of Shame. "Vodka and Coca-Cola! Détente in a glass." His inability to drink his ethics under the table and accept the gift-wrapped stitch-up of the Markham affair may be a professional embarrassment, but it gives him a harassed dignity that persists through his cagily tape-recorded conversations, his blatantly burgled flat, his obsessive spiraling after something worse than a scoop, the facts. "Oh, well," he snarls with such exasperated contempt that the cliché sounds like another shortwave code, "don't let the truth get in the way of a good story." It makes his successor in the threads of the conspiracy even more counterintuitive and compelling, since just the CV of his byline establishes Nick Mullen as the kind of ingeniously shameless journo who never has yet. Gabriel Byrne looks too wolfishly handsome for an ice-cream face, but he has no trouble passing himself off as a plainclothes copper in order to upstage the competition with an extra-spicy soundbite gleaned from an all-night stakeout and a literal foot in the door. His neutrally converted flat looks barely moved into, its mismatched and minimal furnishings dominated by the analog workstation of his deep-drawered desk with its card file and telephone and cork board and typewriter, a capitalist-realist joke of a work-life balance. Whatever he actually believes about the exposé he's penned with everything in it from call girls to CND, it comes an obvious second to drinks with the deputy editor and being let off puff pieces about the bingo—fast-forwarded four decades of slang, Nick might say in line with his corporatized, privatized generation that caring is cringe. "Give me a break. You know how it is. It's a bloody good story!" And yet because he's not too successfully disaffected to show concern when a mordantly ratted Vernon raises a belligerent glass to his shadow from Special Branch, in little more than the time it takes to jimmy open a filing cabinet he will find himself not merely retracing his older colleague's steps but telescoping through them, the real story coming in like a scream of turbines and terrifyingly so much less clandestine than it should have had the decency to be. Le Carré is invoked with debunking condescension, but it is just that chill of his which pervades this film whose obscured, oppressive antagonist is not a foreign power or a rogue agent or even a sinister corporation but the establishment itself, blandly willing to commit any number of atrocities to contain a scandal that goes considerably further than the death of a young offender or the indiscretions of a former chairman of the Defence Select Committee. The old scares still work when Vernon's integrity can be questioned with the reminder of his Communist youth, but the cold isn't coming from the other side of the Iron Curtain: if you can't see your breath in Whitehall, you must not be looking. Hence the warmest character on this scene is its most disposable and its antihero in ever greater danger as he makes not only the tradecraft connections of collated data, but the human ones of outrage, trust, and shame, learning to shiver as he goes, but fast enough? His faith in his own disillusion is touchingly unequal to the pitiless weirdness of the tribunal of nameless civil servants who cross-question him like judges of the underworld in triplicate before turning him loose into a night so vaporous and deserted, its traffic lights blinking robotically in the mercury sheen, it seems that in the ultimate solipsism of conspiracy Nick has become the one real person in all of London. After all, a state need not kill if it can atomize, terminating communication either way. "The only person who knew the answer to that question was Vernon."

Originating as a screenplay by Martin Stellman who already had the anti-establishment cult non-musical Quadrophenia (1979) under his belt and directed by prior documentarian David Drury, Defence of the Realm had grounds for its nervous clamminess even before the photography of Roger Deakins, who gave it a color scheme which tends even in natural light toward the blanched or crepuscular and a camera which monitors its subjects from such surreptitious telephoto angles—when it isn't jostling against them like an umbrella in a crowd—that no closed-circuit, reel-to-reel confirmation is required for it to feel unsafe for them to be captured on film at all. "Age of Technology, eh?" Nick remarks affectionately, rescuing Vernon from the poser of the portable tape recorder. "You haven't even caught up with the Industrial Revolution." Suitable to its techno-thriller aspects, the film is as mixed in its media as parapsychological sci-fi, but whatever pre-digital nostalgia the viewer may feel toward an Olympus Pearlcorder S920 or a Xerox machine should tap out at nuclear-armed F-111s. "R.A.F. Milden Heath, Home of the 14th Tac. Fighter Wing U.S. Air Force" hardly needs the geographical triangulation of Brandon and Thetford to translate it into RAF Lakenheath where two separate near-accidents involving American nukes on British soil really had, in 1956 and 1961, occurred. Only the first had been officially acknowledged at the time of the film's production and release. The Greenham Common Women's Peace Camp was still in full protest, the American nuclear presence a plutonium-hot, red-button issue; it was no stretch to imagine another incident kicked under the irradiated carpet at all costs. The film's more disturbing skepticism is reserved for the trustiness of its hot metal news. Its portrait of the fourth estate is not wholly unaffectionate, especially in cultural details such as the racket of a banging-out ceremony in the composing room, the collage of pin-ups in the stacks of the manila-filed morgue, or even the pained groan with which Bill Paterson's Jack Macleod observes the disposal of a cup of cold coffee: "Aw, Christ, what did that geranium ever do to you?" The Conservative sympathies of the paper, however, are flagged on introduction as its senior staff slam-dunk the character assassination of a prominent opposition MP and it is eventually no surprise to find its owner in more than tacit collusion with the faceless forces of the security services, considering his side hustle in defence contracting. "The man's into the government for millions . . . They build American bases. Can't jeopardize that, old son." It is not just the individual journalists in Defence of the Realm, but the entire concept of a free press that seems fragile, contingent, compromised. For all its triumphal, classical headline montage, the film goes out on a note of thrumming ambiguity, whether the conspiracy will perpetuate itself through its own media channels, whether everything we have seen lost will be worth the sacrifice or merely the valiant humanity of trying. These days I would be much more hostile to the magical thinking of a secret state except for all the authoritarianism. Move over, Vernon, even if both halves of your favorite beverage would try to kill me. "It's a free country. I think."

Denholm Elliott won his third consecutive BAFTA for Defence of the Realm and deserved to, stealing a film so three-dimensionally that his exit leaves the audience less twist-shocked than bereft: what a waste that he and Judi Dench never played siblings or cousins, their cat's faces and wide-set jasper eyes. Ian Bannen appears even more sparingly as Dennis Markham, but he only needs to be remembered as Jim Prideaux to trail that cold world in with him. As his PA, Greta Scacchi's Nina Beckman is self-possessed, unimpressed, and it feels like a mark of the film's maturity that she does not fall into bed with Nick when he's of much more use to her as a partner in counter-conspiracy, meeting on the red-railed Hungerford Bridge where we cannot tell if the reverse-shot pair on the concrete arches of Waterloo Bridge should be taken as tourists, commuters, more of the surveillance apparatus that feels so very little need to disguise itself. It is not faint praise that Gabriel Byrne thinks convincingly onscreen, especially when Nick gives an initial impression of cleverness rather than depth. I can respect the way he lives in the one tweed jacket down to falling asleep in his car in it. After two decades of keeping an eye out, I pounced on this film on Tubi despite its rather disappointingly scrunchy transfer and enjoyed it in much better shape on YouTube. Whatever else has dated of its technologies and mores, I have to say that a distrust of American nuclear capacities sounds healthy to me. This détente brought to you by my industrial backers at Patreon.

Turkey C and other food prep

Dec. 2nd, 2025 02:50 pm
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I got a third bird (in 3 weeks, which was perhaps Too Much to Do Again….), and this is what happened to it last week:
  • one breast plus both drumsticks plus the drumsticks from Turkey B were baked with some herb mix and brought as part of a midweek meal delivery to a family with a new baby (#4)
  • the thighs were baked over onions + mushrooms + sourdough bread bits + sage* salt, and topped with herbs, for midweek eating
  • the other breast and both wings were baked for Shabbat dinner, topped with cranberry chutney, over pieces of butternut squash* and cranberries
  • the frame and the neck were used to fortify the turkey stock originally made with the frame and neck from Turkey B, then reduced somewhat and frozen


I was hosting Shabbat dinner. In addition to the turkey with butternut and cranberries, this was the menu:
  • challah (brought by guest)
  • mixed poultry bone broth (made to get the bags of bones out of the freezer, because I need the space for a delivery tomorrow), the bones roasted, then slowly boiled with a bit of vinegar added (to encourage more out of the bones) for a day or so; after ditching the bones, adding in the turkey bits from making the turkey stock, leeks*, carrots*, purple-top turnips*, and dumplings [this soup has so much bone brothy goodness that it was practically solid after refrigerating, which was satisfying to see]
  • platter of six things in little cups: black olives, green olives, dilly pickled radishes*, fermented hot pepper sauce* (more sludge than sauce), cranberry chutney, and cranberry relish
  • roasted beets* and purple-top turnips*
  • sauted onion, sweet potato*, collards, and chickpeas with a little chocolate-chili spice mix
  • cabbage*-carrot*-Hakurei turnip*-purple starburst daikon* slaw, dressed with soy, lime, sesame, and hot sesame oil
  • peach pie (using some of the sliced peaches I froze this summer)
  • maple-walnut pie

* locally sourced

It's giving giving tuesday

Dec. 2nd, 2025 11:18 am
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For this week, for everyone who makes a donation to the BIJAN Beyond Bond & Legal Defense Fund, I will write a drabble about some character or show I know enough about to write. Since I've only written one fic since 2014 it's going to be rough, but BIJAN desperately needs the money and I'm going to try.

The Beyond Bond & Legal Defense Fund (the Bond Fund) raises money for immigration bonds to free people in ICE prisons in Massachusetts and Rhode Island or those detained elsewhere who are from or returning to MA.

Donate.

Tell me you made a donation and give me a prompt! If I don't know the source material we can negotiate.

(If you can't give money to a US org, make a donation to an org in your country that helps refugees and undocumented migrants stay.)

Eighteen.

Dec. 1st, 2025 11:49 pm
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Trigger Warning: Sexual and emotional abuse.

I don't know that milk is supposed to be a thing you put on your altar --probably it's not a great choice, what with the fact that it spoils and stuff.

But it's eighteen years tonight and tomorrow, and I wasn't gonna _not_. I'll clean it up tomorrow. The room can live with milk in it for twelve hours.

I think I get ice cream tomorrow. I don't know what else my plans are, but I think ice cream is an absolutely pivotal part of it. Drink the thing that poisons those who would hurt you. Be stronger than they are. Have a thing that brings you joy that will keep them away, keep them from being able to touch you.

Eighteen years ago was the last time I was raped. I have now lived half my life in "after". Well. Tomorrow morning. Tonight and then. Approaching midnight means still at the Hoff theatre. I think the part where he tried to fuck me without any kind of protection was the Friday night, would've been last night. Now is the Saturday night, and the very last of all of it, the very last time we are still on good terms.

(I think it's the time I didn't get to kiss August, but maybe that was earlier in the fall. Because it is only okay to kiss women, because in addition to every other insecurity, doesn't actually believe in bisexuality or recognize it as a real threat. My queerness is an additional fuck you.)

Half my life since we broke up. Half my life since after.

I did it.

I made it to 36 without fucking up someone half my age. I made it to 36 with relationships that are good, with partners that love who _I_ am and not just what I can do for them. I made it to 36 and can have sex that is joyful and funny and weird and hot and kinky and consensual and consensual and consensual and consensual.

"And it isn't my fault that the barbarian raped me"

I made it to 36, and in less than twelve hours I'll be more than half my life since him. Not just without him --from first meeting to last was only ever five years, we've done that over and over-- but _since_ him. Half my life _since_ I was raped. Half my life _since_ I was abused.

Half my life since I tried to set myself on fire to keep someone else warm. I am already full of warmth, I will share that with joy. I don't need to burn to provide it.

I'm just going in circles with this, but I'm okay with that, because I've been going in circles for eighteen years. Cycles of healing and hurting, of getting better and suddenly worse. It's part of being human, not leaving things totally behind. And I wouldn't dream of trying to write of what my life was like in the before. Too much of it is here in after.

Almost the majority, in fact.

Happy Anniversary, kSatyr Wulfsohn. You lost and it is entirely your own fault. I hope you figure that out someday, and I hope that it chokes you into actually becoming a better person.

None worked the ways to break me you contrived.
Fuck you I'm not a victim: I survived.


~R.
MOOP!

On dreamwidth, trigger warnings go both ways. Sexual and emotional abuse allusions.

culture consumed (November, 2025)

Dec. 1st, 2025 07:02 pm
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books
  • [Nov 4 Rainbow Book Group] Thunder Song: Essays by Sasha taqwšeblu LaPointe (2025) -- Coast Salish author from the Nooksack and Upper Skagit Indian tribes -- she gets really into riot grrl and punk but also realizes just how white it is, and figures out how to integrate her Indigenous identity

  • [Nov 12 climate change book club] Generation Dread: Finding Purpose in an Age of Climate Anxiety by Britt Wray (2022) -- I know it was largely because I was tired, but I definitely wished this book was shorter

  • [Nov 19 DEI book club -- November is Native American Indian/Alaska Native Heritage Month] Never Whistle at Night: An Indigenous Dark Fiction Anthology ed. Shane Hawk and Theodore C. Van Alst Jr. (2023)

  • Red Paint: The Ancestral Autobiography of a Coast Salish Punk by Sasha taqwšəblu LaPointe (2022) -- near the end of Thunder Song (p.194) she says, talking about her relationship with her ex-husband, "It ended. We both played our roles in that. I wrote a book about it."  Many of us at book club were interested to learn more about the life that isn't talked about in Thunder Song -- and wondered if it might be a more linear narrative (it's not particularly).

  • [Dec 2 Rainbow Book Group] Last Night at the Telegraph Club by Malinda Lo (2021) -- baby lesbian in 1950s SF Chinatown

  • [Dec 10 climate change book club] Perilous Times by Thomas D. Lee (2023, fiction) -- this read really quickly (good because it's almost 500 pages!), which was nice after having struggled a lot with reading recently. I had forgotten that [personal profile] skygiants' reiew talked about it being a Ride that was not well-served by the Serious Business cover art it got.

  • Summer at Squee by Andrea Wang (2024) -- middle-grade novel about a Chinese American kid at Chinese cultural summer camp -- gets into issues of different kinds of Chinese American identity/experience -- seen on the shelves of a local independent bookstore

  • The School for Invisible Boys by Shaun David Hutchinson (2024) -- another middle-grade novel (seen on the Most Anticipated Queer Middle Grade: January-June 2024)
    & its sequel: A Home for Unusual Monsters (2025)

  • Dragon Bike: Fantastical Stories of Bicycling, Feminism, & Dragons ed. Elly Blue (2020) -- volume 6 of the "Bikes in Space" series -- trying for light reading when I was struggling to read, and also trying to read down some of the stuff on my shelves

  • [bff book club] Saving Our Own Lives: A Liberatory Practice of Harm Reduction by Shira Hassan (with Foreword by adrienne maree brown & Introduction by Tourmaline) (2022) -- finally, we finished! Our near-term plan is to pivot to lectionary preview Bible study now that bff is preaching regularly.

  • The Transition by Logan-Ashley Kisner (2025) -- trans-masc werewolf YA horror

    I first heard about this from Book Riot, Our Queerest Shelves, "12 New Queer Books Out in September 2025" (Sep 2, 2025) and was intrigued by a GR review that said: "We've all heard about werewolf analogies when in comes to transition and largely that idea has been reclaimed by the trans community as empowering, but Kisner takes it in a different direction, instead emphasizing how becoming a werewolf goes against bodily autonomy in the way that transition doesn't."

theater
  • [CST] Summer, 1976 with my mom (who graduated high school in 1977) Abby M from church (my mom was sick) [online program]
    1976. An Ohio college town. The second wave of feminism is cresting. Two very different women are thrown together through a faculty babysitting co-op and an unlikely friendship forms between Diana, a fiercely iconoclastic artist, and Alice, a free-spirited yet naive young housewife. Summer, 1976 is written by Pulitzer winner David Auburn (Proof) with Paula Plum, recipient of the Elliot Norton Prize for Sustained Excellence making her CST directorial debut. She is joined by Elliot Norton Award-winning actors Lee Mikeska Gardner and Laura Latreille as Diana and Alice. In the course of 90 minutes, we are brought directly into their memories and the small moments that change the course of their lives in this funny and poignant play The New York Times praises as “sharply observant…subtly, insistently feminist.”
    This play was sadder than I had expected.  When I went back to the blurb afterward, to see what it had actually said versus my expectations, I realized it says almost nothing about the actual play -- about half of the blurb is just the credentials of the people involved.

    Googling, some sites use the phrase "motherhood, ambition and intimacy," which feels like a pretty accurate summary of the themes of the play. In Googling I also came across a WBUR review of this production.

    When the season was initially announced, Abby noticed that almost none of the plays were written by women (Silent Sky was the only one of the five). I didn't get "written by a man" vibes watching this play, but it is interesting that the Artistic Director writes in the program for this play (talking about the plays they selected for this season), "We doubled down on our mission - the feminine perspective and science wrapped within our social justice values," when only one play is actually written by a female perspective. (Yes, obviously women shouldn't be the only people writing women. And also.)
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Currently Reading:

Nothing, apparently.

Reading Next:

It's hard for me to tell what I'll want to read next.  I've been having bouts of wanting light reading and going through my TBR and requesting a bunch of books from the library and then when they arrive finding I'm not interested in a bunch of them atm. And I don't really like reading ebooks, so I have a ton of stuff I've bought in bundles on itch that idk when I'll ever read. (Not helped by the fact that browsing on itch I have to click into a specific title to get any details on it, which does not help my "browse for something I'm in the mood for," especially when I'm tired.)

Oh, I was recently reminded of Betsy Bird's "31 Days, 31 Lists" every December, so I'll be ILLing some amount of kidlit.

I've already read my December book club books, so I guess I can list my January book club books:

[Jan 6 MPL Rainbow book group] My Brother's Husband v.1 by Gengoroh Tagame; translated from the Japanese by Anne Ishii -- I will maybe also read Volume 2, depending on how I feel about Volume 1.

[Jan 11 feminist sff book club] She Who Became the Sun by Shelly Parker-Chan (2021) -- which is long (and the first book in a duology), so we decided to push that meeting out into January
I'm also planning to read the 2023 sequel, He Who Drowned the World, so am planning to get an early start on these long books. Though, I mean, I'm traveling for Christmas, so I may honestly just leave this as my plane ride books.

[Jan 25? OOYL book club] A Sharp Endless Need by Mac (Marisa) Crane (2025)

In an OOYL Discord chat, Frankie said:
I love this discussion tho bc we have talked about how as sports fans, it’s hard to enjoy a sports romance without sports. But then when is it too much sport? Where is the balance?
Has anyone in here read Mac Crane’s A Sharp Endless Need? What did you think of that balance? Maybe we can do that another time—a sports romance that literally opens in scene during a game
I feel a little bit like a faker since I am not in fact a sports fan, but here I am.

Work DEI book club is taking December off. We went ahead with Muslim American Heritage Month for January.  We haven't picked a book (or a date) yet, but below is the list of books under consideration; O suggested the first book on this list, and A.D. suggested the other 5:

The Summer War

Dec. 1st, 2025 04:19 pm
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The Summer War, Naomi Novik, 2025 novella. Novik is such a master of taking her fannish enthusiasms and figuring out how to translate them to original fic in ways that don't rely on you already being "pre-sold" by their fannish context. This is a remix of her Game of Thrones stuff with that one Merlin fic but if you have no idea what I'm talking about you won't be missing anything at all, it will just feel like a fun, satisfying fantasy novella.

Happy the First of Disadvent!

Dec. 1st, 2025 02:29 pm
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It's the most wonderful time of the year - Disadvent, a 24-day festival (or 36 counting the twelve bonus days of Disepiphany) of removal and donation! I think for me, the heart of Disadvent is that it's an indulgence festival where the urge to get rid of stuff is not merely allowed but actively encouraged to outweigh the normal obligations of making sure things get used and maximum preparedness is maintained.

I started my Disadvent in the pantry and found things like 5/6th of a six-pack of individual cartons of almond milk (best by 2022) and 3/6 of a box of bars (best by 2020). Not entirely sure how these things had survived the previous two Disadvent seasons but the second-best time to Disadvent something is today. Also a lot of small miscellany like open bags of ancient jellybeans, one piece of Hanukkah gelt, the last two dried apricots, an open thing of honey-roasted peanuts that weren't that old but smelled funny, an open bag of crunchy lentil snacks of uncertain age.

Expired food is an easy place to start for me because I don't have internal conflict over whether we deserve to eat food that is safe and tasty, or magical thinking guilt over, like, can I not get rid of this because there are people in famines. I know sometimes people do and it's harder. (Also of course if I had actually still-good food I was definitely not going to use I'd drop it in a food drive but this is not that.) I do have guilt over food gifts - people like my parents often bring us exotic treats from their travels that, because they are not part of our normal food routines, we then fail to ever use - but at least with food, unlike other gifts, the passage of time does eventually make it clear that the window to use that matcha powder (or whatever) has passed, and our failure has at least now definitively happened rather than being ongoing. And in general I accept that some food waste is the cost of other priorities like trying new foods, trying new food systems (like, what quantity/format is most useful), and preparedness, so, enh, maybe it's sometimes a cost of generosity/food as a social tool too.

If anyone is playing along, good luck in your pantry!

Vegetables in art

Dec. 1st, 2025 02:55 pm
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I was lying in bed last night, and the thought of vegetables in art floated across my brain in that almost dreamy logic sort of way, focusing on the foods themselves. I came up with three pieces immediately (ignoring all the many still life/cornucopia paintings, cookbooks, or anything that’s trying to get kids to eat vegetables):

“Greens, Greens” song from Into the Woods (Sondheim)

How Are You Peeling? Foods with Moods book by Saxton Freymann

June 29, 1999 book by David Wiesner

eta How could I have forgotten Immanuel ben Solomon of Rome’s poem From the Hungry, Praise, in appreciation of alliums! /edit

I’m certain I’m missing so very many. Suggestions?
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Hey, Americans and people living in the US going through open enrollment on the state ACA marketplaces who haven't yet enrolled in a plan for 2026!

Just about every state in the union and DC (but not Idaho) proudly touts an end date to open enrollment sometime in January. This year for most states it ends January 15th, but in CA, NJ, NY, RI, and DC, it's January 31st, and here in Massachusetts, it's January 23rd. (Idaho's is December 15th.) [Source]

That sure sounds like the deadline is sometime in January.

No, it kinda isn't.

tl;dr: Just assume if you want insurance to start Jan 1, the deadlines are to enroll by Dec 8 and to pay for the first month by Dec 15. Important deets within. [950 words] )

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Many-Selved Family Portraiture

Nov. 30th, 2025 11:14 pm
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Okay. It's still November for 45 more minutes, so I'm still technically within deadline for this! (Our desktop broke. Those posts you've seen the past week were made on a broken old smartphone. Today I got a new desktop and frantically tried to finally get up the Patreon writing I've owed y'all all month.)

Many-Selved Family Portraiture has been uploaded to archive.org, in textual transcript form (of what I originally hoped to make, and then due to technical lack of savvy had to cut down), plus the 78 slides. The files are big!

I swear I will upload them to hm.com later. I am so tired.

EDIT: the alt-text apparently didn't export to EPUB and was lost in the save. -_- I'm sorry. I will have to redo it manually BUT NOT TODAY.

signed up for a 2026 Medicare plan

Nov. 30th, 2025 04:35 pm
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I signed up for a 2026 Medicare Advantage (part C) plan today. I had it narrowed it down to two plans, and decided yesterday which one I like better. There are minor differences--in particular, the one I chose has a lower copay for physical therapy--but there don't seem to be significant differences. It also has a slightly better rating, according to the Medicare.gov site, by half a star, but that might not be significant (an average 3.7 rounds to 3.5, and 3.8 rounds to 4).

Now, it should just be a matter of telling various doctors and pharmacies that my insurance has changed as of Jan. 1st, and maybe dealing with a new mail-order pharmacy for the Kesimpta.

They gave me a confirmation number, and if I don't hear from the company in the next few days I will call. (Normal open enrollment ends Dec. 7, but I have a "special election period" that runs through February.)

Wake Up Dead Man

Nov. 30th, 2025 01:58 pm
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Wake Up Dead Man, 2025 movie. It's *really good*, I think it's better than Glass Onion, and I would like more people to see it because so far I can't find anyone on the internet addressing a couple of points, which I will put in a comment. (So, *major spoilers* in the comments!)

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