I think it's necessary to make it clear that unacceptable behavior will not be tolerated but that redemption is possible if he wants it. Of course, this requires that he realize that he needs it and, as I said above, I suspect that he may not be capable of making that realization and surviving it. In any case, only he can choose to walk that path but we should not be blocking it.
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Date: 2013-05-19 04:09 am (UTC)