Spare Change News
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In the Davis Square T station, I often see people, presumably homeless, selling Spare Change News. Sometimes I buy it.
Today, one of them came around to me while I was sitting on a bench, waiting for an inbound train. I gave him $1 -- but then he wouldn't give me the paper. He said it was his last one. I found this annoying, especially since I actually wanted to read two of the articles that I saw on the front page.
Now this guy's got enough trouble in his life, so I don't want to make more by complaining to Spare Change News ... but this just isn't the way to do things.
Today, one of them came around to me while I was sitting on a bench, waiting for an inbound train. I gave him $1 -- but then he wouldn't give me the paper. He said it was his last one. I found this annoying, especially since I actually wanted to read two of the articles that I saw on the front page.
Now this guy's got enough trouble in his life, so I don't want to make more by complaining to Spare Change News ... but this just isn't the way to do things.
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Date: 2006-05-10 08:06 pm (UTC)I see him at every redline stop in cambridge, he can be really in-your-face.
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Date: 2006-05-10 07:43 pm (UTC)Basically, anyone with a dollar can go up and buy a paper and use that same ruse. I coudl do it. I live in a relatively trouble-free, comfortable home. There's nothing Spare Change nor anyone can do about it, other than asking to see the badge.
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Date: 2006-05-10 09:52 pm (UTC)Thanks, everyone who has participated in this discussion.
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Date: 2006-05-10 07:47 pm (UTC)not sure about clean-shaven, and I thought he had dark hair.
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Date: 2006-05-10 08:31 pm (UTC)Next time you see a legit seller, check out the badge so you know for next time.
I love our regular vendor in Porter Square. He's got this amazingly soothing voice. "Spare change... only one dollar."
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Date: 2006-05-10 09:30 pm (UTC)We want to provide coverage of issues that interest you, as well as give you a chance to help out someone in need. We do not want you to get scammed, and we want to know about it if it happens.
Thanks to everyone for their kind thoughts about SCN--it's more typical for us to get bashed on livejournal than it is to see people who actually buy the paper and read it, so seeing this post is a breath of fresh air.
-Paul Rice, managing editor, Spare Change News
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Date: 2006-05-10 10:03 pm (UTC)But you gave him a dollar in exchange for something, and you got nothing back.
Normally, you get the money back.
;)
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Date: 2006-05-10 11:48 pm (UTC)Also, I personally think it's pretty ableist to accept behavior from someone who presumably is homeless/is formerly homeless/has mental illness that you wouldn't accept from most people. It's one thing to be accomodating when someone presents as sort of odd or awkward -- that's helpful to people who are trying to get back on track. It's enabling and actually insulting to perpetuate the thinking of "well, he has a disability and/or is homeless, so I'm not going to act humanly to him and instead am just going to smile and nod as he is flat out rude and inappropriate to me."
I think we owe all human beings the decency of interacting humanly. If someone acts in a way that we feel is rude or dishonest, the respectful thing to do is say "I feel like you're being dishonest and rude to me" to that person. Reality testing is often the best thing for someone with major mental illness. It's really the best thing for anyone, really. Wouldn't you feel really disoriented if you got up one day, were a total asshole to everyone you encountered, and just had everyone smile and nod?
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Date: 2006-05-11 01:44 am (UTC)Nah, I'd figure they thought I was a system administrator.
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Date: 2006-05-11 02:03 am (UTC)And that's SO funny you mention that after my wanting to kill one at work today...
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