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Representatives Denise Provost, Carl Sciortino, and Tim Toomey, and Senators Jarrett Barrios and Pat Jehlen were sued today in the U.S. District Court for the District of Massachusetts "for violating the constitutional rights of Massachusetts citizens by intentionally refusing to vote on a citizen initiative amendment on the definition of marriage," according to a press release issued by Vote on Marriage, the initiative petition campaign seeking to define marriage in Massachusetts as the union between a man and a woman.
 

The Vote on Marriage press release is available here.

A PDF of the Complaint is available
here.

Selected initiative petitions that would have never been voted on if past State Legislatures disregarded their Constitutional duty like our fine legislators from Somerville:

1938 - Initiative to provide free public taxicab stands in cities and towns.
1950 - Initiative to establish the Massachusetts State Lottery.
1976 - Initiative to
prohibit to possession, ownership, or sale of any weapon from which a shot or bullet can be discharged and which has a barrel length of less than 16 inches.
1976 - Initiative to require every beverage container to have a refund value of $.05 and to ban containers with flip-tops.
1980 - Initiative to limit local property taxes (a.k.a. Proposition 2 1/2).

Date: 2006-12-14 12:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] two-stabs.livejournal.com
As ridiculous as I find the notion that marriage shouldn't be extended to all people regardless of gender and sexual orientation, a pet peeve of mine has always been those wildly innacurate labels. I don't think pro-hate is any more or less on point than anti-love. Anyway, yeah. No intent to offend.

Date: 2006-12-14 01:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] agnosticoracle.livejournal.com
I think anti-love is exactly on point. That is the crux of the issue. The folks who are against gay marriage are against gay love it is the root of their agenda.

Date: 2006-12-14 01:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] two-stabs.livejournal.com
You'd find more folks who are expressly against gay marriage than they are against gay love. That's all I'm saying -- anti gay marriage is the thing. Anti-love sounds misleading, like the folks who oppose it are demons or something.

Date: 2006-12-14 02:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] koloratur.livejournal.com
Would monsters be more appropriate? Or selfish, small minded assholes? Honestly...I can't see why people should tiptoe around the feelings of those who would deny two people in love the right to get married (and all of the legal benefits and protections that come with it.) No slam against you intended at all; I just can't find any common ground with or sympathy for people who oppose gay marriage.

I deserve more equality than you do!

Date: 2006-12-14 05:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] turil.livejournal.com
"Would monsters be more appropriate? Or selfish, small minded assholes?"

Only if you want to live in a world where people who have different backgrounds, different educational histories, and different cultures than you are, by default, considered monsters, selfish, or assholes...

I agree that fighting against marriage rights for all genders is a bad thing, but if you really want to help people move past that prejudice and fear of same sex marriage, then you have to at least take the time to understand why they are so afraid of same sex marriage and have become so passionate about fighting it, and find a way to see these people as human beings, just like you, who simply want to live in a world without fear. In other words, if you want equality, you have to treat people equally.

When someone you like does something that harms you, you are very likely to forgive them pretty quickly, understand that they aren't perfect and make mistakes, and do your best to help them learn more successful ways to live well in the future. You do this because you know that treating them like crap is not likely to help them grow and learn how to be a better person. So, if you think equality is a core element in your ideal world, then you have to treat even people you don't like the same (effective) way that you treat your friends when they screw up. If you don't think it's a good idea to call your friends small minded assholes or monsters... If you think that that tactic wouldn't help them be better people, then why on earth do you think it will work with anyone else?

Ultimately, what is the purpose of calling someone a monster? What good does it do other than inflate your own ego?

I deserve more equality than you do!

Date: 2006-12-14 05:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] turil.livejournal.com
"Would monsters be more appropriate? Or selfish, small minded assholes?"

Only if you want to live in a world where people who have different backgrounds, different educational histories, and different cultures than you are, by default, considered monsters, selfish, or assholes...

I agree that fighting against marriage rights for all genders is a bad thing, but if you really want to help people move past that prejudice and fear of same sex marriage, then you have to at least take the time to understand why they are so afraid of same sex marriage and have become so passionate about fighting it, and find a way to see these people as human beings, just like you, who simply want to live in a world without fear. In other words, if you want equality, you have to treat people equally.

When someone you like does something that harms you, you are very likely to forgive them pretty quickly, understand that they aren't perfect and make mistakes, and do your best to help them learn more successful ways to live well in the future. You do this because you know that treating them like crap is not likely to help them grow and learn how to be a better person. So, if you think equality is a core element in your ideal world, then you have to treat even people you don't like the same (effective) way that you treat your friends when they screw up. If you don't think it's a good idea to call your friends small minded assholes or monsters... If you think that that tactic wouldn't help them be better people, then why on earth do you think it will work with anyone else?

Ultimately, what is the purpose of calling someone a monster? What good does it do other than inflate your own ego?

It's not about "tiptoeing around the feelings" of anyone, it's about walking your talk (equality) and being effective (in encouraging people to learn from, rather than fear you).

Re: I deserve more equality than you do!

Date: 2006-12-14 12:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] koloratur.livejournal.com
I guess we're going to have to agree to disagree - I don't find anything sympathetic about people who would deny others basic rights. Where would we be if more people had just taken the time to *understand* why people didn't want black Americans to vote? Yes, gay marriage may be of a different magnitude (depending on the individual's opinion,) but it still amounts to a group of people being denied equal rights because of something that they cannot change. I will not treat people who preach hate and ignorance the same way I would treat a friend who "screwed up."

Re: I deserve more equality than you do!

Date: 2006-12-14 01:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] two-stabs.livejournal.com
The comparison of oppressions in this comment is sort of disturbing. Let's toss civil rights for black americans sixty years ago on the scale next to rights for gay folks who want to participate in a hijacked christian ritual today.

I think I'm out on this thread.

Re: I deserve more equality than you do!

Date: 2006-12-14 02:29 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] ron_newman
Christian ritual? Plenty of Jews got married before there was any such thing as Christianity.

Re: I deserve more equality than you do!

Date: 2006-12-14 03:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] two-stabs.livejournal.com
It's true. But in America, it has been hijacked as a christian ritual, to the point where jewish weddings are both quite distinct from the mainstream and relatively few in number.

Re: I deserve more equality than you do!

Date: 2006-12-14 03:22 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] ron_newman
Jews are "relatively few in number", but are we getting married at a lower proportion than the Christian population? I don't think so.

Re: I deserve more equality than you do!

Date: 2006-12-14 02:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] artic-monkeys.livejournal.com
"it still amounts to a group of people being denied equal rights because of something that they cannot change"


What if it were something they could change? Should they not still have the right to choose it otherwise? I believe they should.

Re: I deserve more equality than you do!

Date: 2006-12-14 05:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] turil.livejournal.com
That's ok, I understand your prejudice. It's natural to be afraid of people who threaten your lifestyle or beliefs.

Re: I deserve more equality than you do!

Date: 2006-12-14 01:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] two-stabs.livejournal.com
I like your emphasis on effectiveness in equality.

Date: 2006-12-14 03:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ravenword.livejournal.com
"You'd find more folks who are expressly against gay marriage than they are against gay love."

I strongly disagree. I think that most people only bicker about the term "marriage" as a way to sidestep voicing their visceral distaste for same-sex relationships. "Give them civil unions," they say, "just don't let them think that they're the same as me, because that would debase me in some way." If "irregardless" can be in the dictionary, if "NOOK-u-lar" can be in the dictionary, then we can amend the damn dictionary for these loving couples.

I think the term "anti-love" is painting with a very broad and sensationalist brush, however. The equivalent would be referring to pro-marriage people as "pro-perversion" or something. I agree with the sentiment expressed by [livejournal.com profile] agnosticoracle, but it wouldn't have been my choice of term either.

Date: 2006-12-14 01:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] two-stabs.livejournal.com
Many folks are against gay marriage because they believe the institution is pure (I'm a wedding DJ; it's not!). Romans 32 cracks down on homosexuality, and seeing as western marriage has basically been usurped by mainstream christianity in the past two hundred and fifty years, I think there's a lot of confusion as to why gay folks don't want civil unions with comparable financial benefits. Some people (stupidly, spitefully) see it as a snub. They may not be against gay love, which we must remind ourselves does not always go hand in hand with marriage, but simply the 'infiltration' of a perceived christian instutition.

I'd rather see the majority of folks get civil unions, personally: straight, G, B, L, T, Q, I, or otherwise.

Date: 2006-12-14 04:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] agnosticoracle.livejournal.com
Anti-love refers to the organizations that oppose gay marriage. Those organization Focus on the Family, et al are expressly anti-gay love.

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